Dating a wounded man

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Just the past couple of months 3 different people thought I was in my 20s. In the end, though, he made me feel beautiful and desired. And sometimes healing materializes in unexpected ways. *(Humblebrag or not: in real life NO ONE ever thinks I’m in my 40s much less 46. Taurus males are considered as one of the best lovers among males of all zodiac signs.

A Taurus man is basically peaceful and conservative by temperament.He is near perfect and does not appreciate sloppiness.Understanding him is not easy, but being simple, sensible, patient and practical are some of his basic qualities. On a steamy August night we finally met almost a year and a half after that first message from him. We met at my favorite tucked away viewing spot of Austin around midnight. It had been 18 months of texting, talking on the phone, and this was our first meeting. This is mostly a blessing, but online it’s a curse. Most dudes that I would be interested in won’t even consider me due to my age. That is absurd and I’m sure they need glasses, but nonetheless, I look about 8–10 years younger than I am. I’m not always so generous with guys from my past, but I am with him. He was mostly clueless and at a completely different point in his life. If he wanted to be with someone just for a physical connection, he had plenty of other options. Healing can happen in likely places (therapy, reading, courses, talking with friends and family). I’m not sure he ever took his hand off of me the entire time we were together. To this day sitting next to him admiring the bright lights of downtown from afar while laughing and smiling was one of the most natural first dates I have ever had. I thanked him for all he had done (without going into the specifics of my history). But those emotions seem all wrong when I think of him. Who knew that the much younger, really good looking, surfer/tennis instructor would so profoundly impact me? We spoke on the phone on a Sunday night and he made his case. 2016, which included this dating story and lesson, was particularly cruel, dating-wise. Although much time had passed our chemistry was as strong as it had been our first meeting. I communicated my skepticism given how many times he had told me similar things before and never followed through. But mostly I got cancelled on, forgotten, ditched, and ignored during that window of time. He wrote to me declaring that he was ready for a real relationship with me. He would disappear for months and then reappear as if nothing had happened. RELATED: 7 Harsh Truths About Dating Younger Guys I dated. I was disappointed, but he had shared something with me during our time together that changed my life. Some time later Spicoli re-entered my life one last time.


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