Its funny cuz many will accuse bw of partnering with wm to escape their blackness. Many bw partner with wm in attempt to BECOME more black by ‘recruiting’ said wm to The Cause.They are trying to CONVERT wm into the religion of black suffering since they couldnt find the black one they hoped would lead in that area.
Or maybe they are under such constant stress and work that they are aged prematurely by it. One way or another, this character may look like an adult(/teenager/older child), and even act and talk like one, but chronologically speaking, they aren't.
Other times there may be a young adult with the appearance of a middle aged or even older man.
If, in live-action, their age is surprising to the viewer but not anyone in story, it's a bad side-effect of Dawson Casting.
Many people will contest that this is a Truth in Television. Compare Compulsory School Age, Mistaken Age, Age-Inappropriate Dress.
One of the greatest traits black women have is our loyalty.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.Gray hair, a prematurely receding hairline, generally cause someone to look older.Certain types of facial hair also can make a younger man seem older.There are MANY pros for dating/courting/marrying/mating/partnering with black women. My suggestion to wm who are looking for a black woman to love would be to make sure she is not using you in some strange reverse Black Love scheme – where she gets to live out her Race-First SJW imperative, not by fighting “the system’ in abstract, but by using her influence to convert a single white man for the cause.It is NOT your responsibility to center your primary love relationship around race politics. Follow Christelyn on Instagram and Twitter, and subscribe to our You Tube channel.Its duplicitous and ridiculous and I would encourage all white/non-blk men who are genuinely interested and open to partnering with black women to avoid chics like that like the plague.Black women can be WONDERFUL mate options for non-black men, but we got our shit with us too.Jimmy-Joe did not have the power to keep the Klu Klux Klan from burning crosses on his lawn for being a “n*gger lover.” Individual white men did not have any special powers to magically make all that stuff go away.But often there’s this judgement and lack of historical contextualizing black women engage in whenever we have these discussions.A lot of times, black women expect one man to conquer the world and give up everything and risk everyone’s life with constant stress of being victimized by people who are against him, and if he doesn’t choose that, he’s a cowardly piece of shit.When I bring up the FACT that black women were also terrified of making the leap to love across color lines, historical context and justifications are given.